The mean sweet or the sweet mean cycle is another brain washing tool the Narcissist uses to gain control over their victim, and to make them a willing participant in the Narcissist's game of abuse. Preying on the victims emotions and loving nature, they use this
balancing act to be able to stay in the victims life. Though these relationships are chaotic, the sweets are enough to convince the
victim this abuse is normal. This is called brain washing ! Learn the signs and REG FLAGS and avoid this type of behavior at all cost !